A relationship of attention, respect, care and knowledge is central to the process of healing and of getting to know a person in a more meaningful fashion. Appreciation is given to both what is known and to the unknown mystery of who we are that reveals itself only gradually. As a relationship involves two people it is impossible to separate the personal and professional development of the physician/therapist/healer from the healing process. We find what we are capable of seeing. The following are ways of working with a person seeking integral treatment.